Monday, February 9, 2009

January Times

Coming back to Korea brought an interesting realization... Korea is home. You never feel more at home than when you go away. There were such stark differences between the two Asian countries. China takes great pride in their history, while Korea is constantly turning their back to theirs. China has little desire to Westernize, while that seems to be one of Korea's greatest goals. Korean architecture is based on functionality, i.e. concrete buildings built into the sky. China's is a direct reflection of their "pride" again - beautiful colors and elaborate designs that say, "We were once a world power! Don't forget that!" Even the people were different, beyond their appearances (which I am starting to be able to differentiate between Chatch), Korean's seem to be a softer, more trustworthy people. I have never felt unsafe or even on edge here. There, people attempted to scam us at least three times a day, you have to watch your purse and the streets are not safe at night, like they are here. China was a great place to visit, but for now, I am happy to be teaching in Korea :)

Returning to school has been a fine adjustment. In fact, I missed my kids to death! I went to all my classes five minutes early, just to hangout with them. I am really loving my school, my kids and my co-workers. I don't think I could have found a better match. Unfortunately, change is on the horizon. The new semester starts in March and four of my favorite teachers are leaving, two of them being males, only to be replaced by more females. It isn't that the full female staff scares me, as much as the change itself does. If I am perfectly happy now, it means things can only go downhill, right?! I am being a pessimist. Don't worry, these thoughts are minor. 

Speaking of work, I was staying late the other night, resulting in forced awkwardness all the way down the elevator with my two bosses. They started the conversation with compliments on my child-dealing skills, followed with a "Would you like to take one of the new kindy classes starting in March?" These would be five year olds with no English background. Excited, I agreed. At which point my director dropped the bomb. They would need me to stay another two plus months, which would turn into five. Do not despair, although I have not declined the offer yet, I will. I made some promises that I will stick to! Plus, this girl wants to do some traveling!

Other than work, my personal life has taken a surprising turn. Aaron, the southern gentleman I mentioned in my China blog, had a couple weeks off in the month of January and yet to leave China. 
Considering the brilliant time we had in Beijing, I eagerly invited him to Seoul. Prior to him leaving last Tuesday, I had the best two weeks in Korea/life :) We spent our times indulging in awesome cuisine, dancing the nights away, hiking our days away and talking every second in between. Kind of seems like a dream now. As of now, February third was not the end of the Kelsey Aaron saga. Wish us luck as he is now back teaching in Shanghai with no end date in mind. 

My apologies for being so distant for the last month. I promise to stay on top of my communication for the next year. I love you all, and with recent events back home am missing you all terribly. Know that you are in my prayers.

China Overdue

It has officially been a month since I lazily updated this with China videos... I suppose it is about that time to hit the typewriter again. 

My trip to China began on Christmas day. My friend from back home, Becca, who is working in Busan met me at a tube stop and we began our adventure there. Arriving at the airport late, around eleven, we searched for the most comfortable benches. Thinking we had found the treasured padded seats, we attempted to sleep. Turns out no one else would sleep there b/c they were located by the largest windows, therefore most sunny and freezing areas. This resulted in the worst nights sleep of our mutual lives. 

Moving on... after one morning Heineken we boarded the plane and slept the majority of the two-ish hour flight. Upon arrival we could not find a cabby to take us to our Chinese written address. This proved to be a common theme throughout the trip. An hour in the cab brought us to "The Happy Dragon" - appeared to be very sketchy and in a dark alley. Especially today, I could not be more grateful to the Happy Dragon. We spent many a night there, and met many a good friend/boyfriend there. 

We slept the first full day, then played some dice in our hostel bar in hopes of meeting a crew to hangout with. Success. In desperation I turned to the table next to us - Aaron and Stephen, two sweet looking South Dallas guys - and asked boldly, "Where you two going? And can we join you?" These questions led to two of the best days that molded into two great weeks ending only last Tuesday. The four of us took on the town for the next 48 plus hours, wandering the streets till sunrise, beating Beijing to McDonald's breakfast and watching the sunrise while during the daily flag rising in Tiananmen Square. 

The rest of the events of the week are now a blur as to when they happened. Here is my best recap:
The Great Wall hike was one we were not prepared for. It was a ten k hike up and down to thirty different tours. When I say up and down, I want you to imagine the steepest slopes and inclines with the smallest then biggest stairs you have ever witnessed, then smash them a couple times just to make it more challenging. As difficult as the hike was, it was a rewarding and exciting journey. The view of Mongolia on one side and China on the other, with mountains further than the eyes can see, was an indescribable view.

Incredible. I say we were not prepared, b/c the first part of the hike was miserably freezing (Minnesotaesque), then melting hot by the time you reached the top and climbed over a hundred stairs. Then we didn't bring enough money to do the gratifying zip-line, or eat lunch after being on the wall. Those were minor blips in the amazingness that is the Great Wall. It is mind-boggling to wrap yourself around the labor that went into the construction of this defense. Incredible.

On our list of to do's were obviously the many markets. We hit up any shopping opportunity we saw. This included the Silk Market, the Pearl Market, the Antique Market and every alley market we passed. The excitement was derived not from the items purchased, but from the haggling that was involved. Our biggest mistake was starting at the Silk Market. They kicked our butts! Silk Market 10, Kelsey and Becca 0. We could not believe what we read - to a fault. Venders will over charge you 70%, it is your goal to get that down to 25% at least. My first purchase were a pair of pants that I ended up buying for about $70, thinking I got a deal after bringing her down $50. As soon as I brought the pants home, the size was not what was advertised, the button popped off at first touch and the zipper is non-functional. Not every experience was this unsuccessful. In fact, I got pretty good, making most barters for the two of us, walking away with pissed off merchants and cheap Chinese goods. It became an art and a challenge after the pants debacle.

Becca and I also made it to all the typical tourist sites, including General Mao's memorial. 
We hit up the Forbidden City, Tiananmen Square, Temple of Gardens, and now I have forgotten the rest. Within these ancient walls held beautiful architecture, vibrant colors, gardens that must be fluorescent in summer, and hidden treats to boot. The temples, buildings, hallways and interiors were covered in elaborate designs, with almost neon reds, blues, golds, and greens. The moldings were as you would imagine them, decked with dragons and other celebrated animals. Along with the dynamic colors and detailed construction came the epic history of China. It was fascinating to learn what little we did about this old and proud country. 

The one brilliant thing about China that I have not mentioned, that I am sure you are probably all thinking about, was the FOOD! We did it up right. We would nibble all day, then gorge on an extravagant meal, never once knowing exactly what we were going to get. The experience involved pointing at pictures, which is how we would choose a restaurant - whether or not they had picture menus :) We ate everything typical - fried rice, spicy soups, lomein, dumplings, spicy sandwiches and assorted meats. Our favorite restaurant was also our cheapest meal. We went in, not feeling too well, ordered what little we understood and came out with the yummiest sandwiches on crispy pitas and bomb spicy, noodle soup. The food was not what brought us joy, but the cooks. Eleven of them crowded a little doorway, eventually spreading themselves throughout the restaurant to look at the pseudo-blondies. They went so far as taking "discreet" pictures on their camera phones. As embarrassing as it was to have them capture shots of me (Becca was not facing them... grrr...) slurping down soup, I have never been more flattered. This day goes down in history as the day I was a celebrity!

Overall, the trip was a pleasant one. We had enough chill time that we still felt refreshed when returning home, yet we were able to accomplish everything on our imaginary to do list. SUCCESS!

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